Thursday, 16 January 2014

Reading - The Gift Every Child Should Be Given



Since my children were about six months old I have read to them. Obviously I don't read to the older ones anymore but every night I am blessed to snuggle up with Amber and Kitty and sometimes Lucy to read stories.  This means I also get to expand the type of books I am reading too, with favourites at the moment being David Walliams and Frank Cottrell Boyce alongside Princess Poppy stories.  I also encourage all of my children to read, I even brought Jack a book for Christmas, in the hope he would sit and read again.  It seems some teenage boys aren't the avid readers they were when they were younger, devouring a book before breakfast!  

Now I will hold my hands up and admit, I am a bit lapsidaisical when it comes to making sure I listen to Amber and Kitty read their school reading books, but I do reguarly listen to them, just not always school books. I have to admit that I am pleased we are past the Biff and Kipper stage, yet I appreciate the repetitiveness of these aid in the job of learning to read.  Those first tentative steps in learning to read can be scary, difficult and I know from helping at school listening to readers many children would actually like to just give up.  They want to play, not sit and try and make sense of the letter shapes on the pages of first reader books.  I can understand that, I have days when I would rather be doing something else than reading a textbook or journal article.  But every child should be encouraged, helped and taught to read.  This is the best gift we can ever give them.  Reading opens so many doors for them, I don't just mean later in life when they join the rat race. Every sentence can help their vocabulary grow. Every page can take them on adventures that real life may never lead them onto.   Every chapter could help them understand that they are not the only one going through a tough time and may even give them the courage to ask for help or talk about their feelings.  

So I have signed up again to pop into school once a week until I head back out on clinical practice to listen to children read.  I have been doing this for several years now and I love it.  I give up an hour and half a week to sit and listen, to help the adventure of reading begin and continue.  Listening to children getting excited about the stories they are reading makes this time so worth while.  But even more so when a child who has struggled improves, their confidence growing in every page read.  This truly makes me smile.

Most schools welcome helpers to listen to children read.  They may ask you to be CRB checked, which they will pay for, but the requirement seems to vary with different schools.  Whilst parents are encouraged, grandparents, aunties, uncles and I expect godparents too, are welcomed.  Just imagine the difference you could make by sitting for an hour a week listening to children at your local primary school read.  

Until next time, take care.
Zoe
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Wednesday, 15 January 2014

Enjoying Some Downtime

Next week I return to lectures, so having finished my essay I promised myself some downtime this week.  I raided the library for some cookbooks, yes we have shelves full of them but I wanted some new inspiration. So I have been busy baking delicious treats and creating some yummy dinners, thanks to the inspiring Nigella, Jamie and Lorraine.  I hadn't tried any of Lorraine Pascale's recipes before but loving what I have attempted this week, delicious and easy. It's been fab to have time to try new recipes and many I will be adding to my repertoire.  

Tomorrow I am planning a day with my sewing machine and have been busily cutting out fabric earlier ready for some serious stitching.  Then Friday is date day, so fingers crossed the rain goes away so we can have a walk on the beach followed by fish and chips! I know I should be reading up on subject areas to be studied this semester, but I know that the next six months are going to be tough, lots of studying and twelve weeks of clinical practice.  So I am going to enjoy the next few days, completely guilt free, as downtime is good for the soul.

Until next time, take care.
Zoe
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Sunday, 12 January 2014

Grab Life with Both Hands


The last few days have left me in a reflective mood. Two pieces of sad news in twenty four hours made me stop, to reflect and be thankful.  I have five happy, healthy children, (touching wood as I type) whom I adore. I know that I am incredibly lucky and blessed.  Yet Mother Nature can be very cruel and childrens health should never be taken for granted.  This weekend I have spent as much time with my tribe as I can and am so thankful.

Life can be cruel and it is precious. Make the most of everyday, of everything you have. Love life, be thankful. Grab hold of everyday with both hands.

Until next time, take care.
Zoe
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Thursday, 9 January 2014

The Year in Books


Over the festive holiday I discovered a handful of fabulous blogs via Instagram and Pinterest.  I actually think these two are modern day versions of Alice in Wonderland as I often fall down the rabbit hole into a pretty world of newly discovered blogs and websites.  Anyway one of the blogs I found was Circle Of Pine Trees.  I love the simplistic design, the typewriter font and the writing style of it's creator, Laura.  Yesterday she posted about wanting to read more this year and decided to create a regular feature on her blog to share the books she reads.  I related to this post so much, also being a English Literature graduate, having previously lost days under a pile of fantastic storytelling.  But like Laura finding time to read the many books I have in my Amazon wishlist or loaded onto my iPad I loved the idea of commiting to reading one book a month. Surely even in my busy life I could manage this.  I have already decided this year to cut back on my magazine reading to make time for more book reading, so of course I decided to join Laura in this mission.

Quickly reacting to the great response for this challenge, Laura has created a badge (see in my sidebar) and a group on Goodreads for us to share and chat about whatever we have chosen to read.  Unlike a bookclub we each choose our own book, with no restrictions on choice.  So for this month I have chosen to read Bonkers by Jennifer Saunders, one of the funniest ladies ever, of course with Dawn French in that Top 5 too. I tend to only read autobiographies of people I like or am interested in so am really looking forward to reading Bonkers.  

Are you a bookworm or looking to make sure you read more this year? Find out more about The Year in Books here.  I will be sharing my book choices here each month and look forward to discovering new writers and indulging in my favourites too.

Until next time, take care.
Zoe
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Tuesday, 7 January 2014

Happy Jars from The Green Gables


Our Date Jar from The Green Gables

There are moments when I actually think people design products specifically with me in mind.  Seriously, I think about or write about something then bam, a few days later a fab product from a wonderful small business pops into my Facebook timeline or Twitter feed!  Well having written about making time for date days with my fabulous husband and making more time to do things with my children, the amazing Gabrielle of The Green Gables launches a new product that makes the perfect accompaniment to my plans.  Happy Jars are the answer to my dilemmas of affordable ways to have fun that we can all plan, taking guidance from the cute little cards packaged with the little bottles of happiness.

Our Family Activity Jar from The Green Gables

As if these two jars weren't enough excitement for a Tuesday evening Gabrielle has also launched an Acts of Kindness Jar.  Full of fun ideas to make a little difference to somebody elses day.  Now that really makes me smile in our crazy busy world. Gabrielle has written this fab blogpost all about her new Happy Jars.  I am sure many of you will agree, they make a perfect gift aswell as a treat that lasts for a while.

Until next time, take care.
Zoe
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Thursday, 2 January 2014

"I'm bored!" - Why Children Should Be Allowed to Say This

"I'm bored!" Oh how any parent hates to hear this cry, when it's pouring with rain and you've got a million and one things to do.  But I actually truly believe that being bored is good for children.  When else do they get the time to ponder, to think, to just be?  Ever demanding homework schedules, after school club commitments, music practice and more mean that they rarely get the time to be bored.  Only in the school holidays do I hear this short sentence uttered.  Yet I relish it, I offer suggestions but allow them to find something to do.  Roller skating, going for a run, digging out the old box of Lego, watching a film they had forgotten they had, drawing, writing a story, making a board game, playing hairdressers, making up a dance show, bake a cake. The list could go on but it is all good for them, to not have a constant stream of organised activities.  

Yesterday Parentdish tweeted a link to an article that suggested we are failing our children by being too pushy.  Of course I replied that we are, that children should be allowed to be bored, to just be.  I have always been of the school of thought that I do not have to ensure my children have a club everyday after school or a constant flurry of events and clubs at the weekend.  They certainly have not suffered from this, they just do the clubs they really want to do, play the sports and instruments that they want to do.  Their extra curricular education has not suffered and I acutally think they enjoy moments to be bored, as it usually doesn't take them to long to find something to do after that "I'm bored" cry.

As for me, I don't have time to be bored!

Until next time, take care.
Zoe
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Wednesday, 1 January 2014

My Word for 2014 is.....TIME


Well hello 2014!  I never make resolutions and this year have decided to join lots of lovely people in choosing a word for the year.  I have thought long and hard about this and read many other posts from fabulous blogging friends about their choices, including The Start Up Wife and also inspired by Susannah Conway.  I finally decided yesterday that my word for 2014 will be TIME.

I will make TIME -
           for exercise - I was doing so well until clinical placement and commuting got in the way!
           to write cards and letters to send to friends. Snailmail surprises!
           to study - I have several thousand words to write before the end of May!
           for my family - my children are growing so fast.  I also hope for more date days with Andy.
           for trips to the beach - my favourite place in the world.
           for writing - I've had ideas for a couple of books in my head for about three years, I want to start                                     making real plans for these this year.  I also plan to make sure I write here more!
          for being mindful - I am already trying the Headspace app to help me make sure I do this.

So what will your word be?

Until next time, take care.
Zoe
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